tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post5133595826873357830..comments2023-11-03T08:04:49.280-04:00Comments on Rambling Toward Clarity : 72 Candles...Dianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16637670293642285740noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-78845544200660292942009-06-29T06:21:26.710-04:002009-06-29T06:21:26.710-04:00You are lucky to have had such a wonderful person ...You are lucky to have had such a wonderful person in your life. And sharing him with Ryan is the best way to honor him. Accept your grief, share your pain. People who love you understand.Sometimes Sophiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10053598560687202583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-59801296596321341362009-06-28T07:35:30.974-04:002009-06-28T07:35:30.974-04:00I am sorry Diane!! I miss my daddy too!! A LOT!!...I am sorry Diane!! I miss my daddy too!! A LOT!!!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13012277904032798697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-32645582245823177832009-06-27T22:38:39.298-04:002009-06-27T22:38:39.298-04:00This just broke my heart on your behalf. Grief is ...This just broke my heart on your behalf. Grief is a tricky thing. It sneaks up on you. I don't think you'll ever truly "get over" a loss like that.Jennershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08044537551139633301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-78674975538937183692009-06-27T19:32:52.745-04:002009-06-27T19:32:52.745-04:00Their loss is always a part of us, I think, Diane....Their loss is always a part of us, I think, Diane...<br /><br />You are so wonderful to keep him fresh in Ryan's memory...<br /><br />My dad was such a large part of Grizz's childhood, that I hope he has some memories of his own to savour in later years... I just know he's doing that 'man' thing (despite my better efforts), bottling it all up, that kind of thing.<br /><br />I wish you joy, eventually, in your memories of your dad, and yet I think the sadness will still creep up on us, unawares sometimes. Love to you, Diane, Fhina The Non-Brave xxxA Woman Of No Importancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02194976046531063422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-15750982629982918512009-06-26T23:13:41.700-04:002009-06-26T23:13:41.700-04:00I don't think it ever goes away. And though i...I don't think it ever goes away. And though it hurts, at least for me, I don't want it to go away.<br /><br />And isn't it surprising that it can still take you by surprise - the grief? Just wells up out of some deep place and plunks down in your throat and tearducts and everywhere else.<br /><br />I am still struck at times by the shock of it - after ... 9 years. <br /><br />Isn't it good to feel connected, though - to have that kind of a response even in someone's absence? What a lovely thing.Live More Nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12486883402903740941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-63173641986728789552009-06-26T22:32:13.295-04:002009-06-26T22:32:13.295-04:00your post broke my heart! I have a good relationsh...your post broke my heart! I have a good relationship with my dad..and no that this world would not be the same without him! I hurt for you!!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-26794725676893600582009-06-26T14:03:28.182-04:002009-06-26T14:03:28.182-04:00My thoughts are with you Diane.My thoughts are with you Diane.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-79807318611096849692009-06-26T11:34:05.346-04:002009-06-26T11:34:05.346-04:00A lovely post Diane, yes its very hard to lose som...A lovely post Diane, yes its very hard to lose someone you love. <br />My Dad passed away in March this year and I still cant believe he is gone...I still look for him or expect him to be at his house when I go there, he was always a loving Dad and very much a part of my life.<br />I cared for him in the later years, so it is a feeling of emptiness and sadness. ♥diannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171808338793139579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-26408004740675216832009-06-26T11:33:34.671-04:002009-06-26T11:33:34.671-04:00A Happy birthday To Your Wonderful Dad!
You will ...A Happy birthday To Your Wonderful Dad!<br /><br />You will always miss him, but thinking of the good memories help a great deal. He's smiling on you. I deeply believe that.<br /><br />((Hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-43956921190978119882009-06-26T11:19:38.938-04:002009-06-26T11:19:38.938-04:00Blow out the candles and have boney fish in his ho...Blow out the candles and have boney fish in his honor! ;-) I'm sure your dad is looking down on you and is please with what a wonderful woman you have become and what a lovely daughter you are raising.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03651152524448168307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-66229208120550996122009-06-26T10:58:22.346-04:002009-06-26T10:58:22.346-04:00I hope the sunset glows and the stars twinkle just...I hope the sunset glows and the stars twinkle just a little brighter for you, Ryan and your dad tonight. It is hard, I know. My children's grandpa by their mother passed just before the birth of my oldest. He, like your dad, missed out on meeting a beautiful little girl (although they are probably having a boasting contest over the girls up above as we live our lives today).<br /><br />Sorry your hurting.Stu Pidassohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14229620467151429952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-57489955104090459572009-06-26T09:50:27.883-04:002009-06-26T09:50:27.883-04:00Oh honey, I'm so sorry that the pain is still ...Oh honey, I'm so sorry that the pain is still so sharp. I can't imagine the loss of a parent. I know mama is going through it right now, and I see how it affects her every day. <br />It sounds like your dad was a warm, funny man. I'm so glad that Ryan will be able to know him through your stories. <br />Much love- xoxoHeatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01783379570693055648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-63672666215911989832009-06-26T09:45:20.477-04:002009-06-26T09:45:20.477-04:00I haven't had this experience yet, and even th...I haven't had this experience yet, and even though I tease a lot about my parents, I know how lucky I am to have them with me. <br /><br />I am sorry for your sadness. And I am glad that your daughter is bringing you so much happiness. Sounds like there is so much love around you both! Blessings!Everyday Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00486528297252417282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-69097587225226613892009-06-26T09:16:14.445-04:002009-06-26T09:16:14.445-04:00I am so sorry that this grief is still so heavy ar...I am so sorry that this grief is still so heavy around your heart. I do not think anyone can fully understand what you feel and it so difficult to accept death being part of life.<br />Many hugs,<br />ZZuzanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02137958790178864561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-48908409147665790742009-06-26T08:08:59.695-04:002009-06-26T08:08:59.695-04:00I am sorry...but I am glad you had an amazing rela...I am sorry...but I am glad you had an amazing relationship with your Dad...some girls aren't that lucky!Ronda's Rantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06847830394540205074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-74739895813384157492009-06-26T07:48:35.699-04:002009-06-26T07:48:35.699-04:00My dad died almost 12 years ago and it seems like ...My dad died almost 12 years ago and it seems like yesterday. I still miss him terribly, some days (like Father's Day, Memorial Day) are worse than others. As painful as it is, missing him still keeps him close to me. What if I never thought about him? I'm glad he's so deeply embedded in my heart and mind that I cannot forget. I feel that's a way I can continue to honor him.Candyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08906584712170733253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-2888817787729764612009-06-26T07:45:41.787-04:002009-06-26T07:45:41.787-04:00Diane, I do the exact same thing about my nephew w...Diane, I do the exact same thing about my nephew who died when he was 16 (about 16 years ago). We were very close and I dearly loved that boy! Sometimes I can talk about him and laugh at a funny story, or tell "his story" and I am fine. Then other times, with no warning, I will burst into tears as grief once again rushes over me.<br />Hey, when your love is great, your loss is great and I think grief just comes in waves so as not to overwhelm us all at once.<br />Obviously your Dad was a great man for you to still be feeling the loss even now. That is a tribute to his presence and the difference it made here on earth.<br />Wish I could make the pain go away.<br /><br />He would be very proud of you.sherrihttp://matteroffactsite.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-61972424080807415692009-06-26T07:00:07.399-04:002009-06-26T07:00:07.399-04:00You will always miss him, because you carry him in...You will always miss him, because you carry him in your heart. You remember him, because you loved him. Can you imagine the opposite? Horrible thought! Have a hug from Ryan.swenglishexpathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06102783327902959539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-16392828744944717922009-06-26T06:32:24.204-04:002009-06-26T06:32:24.204-04:00Oh, Honey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I kne...Oh, Honey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I knew today would be hard for you, and I don't know if that pain ever really goes away. Missing him hurts, but know that your dad still lives on in you, and in Ryan, too.<br /><br />I didn't know your dad, but I do really think that he would be proud of all that you are.<br /><br />Love you - as you know - and I'm sending you giant hugs. XOXOXOblognuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01161713516407124717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-84811620927973647132009-06-26T05:35:43.015-04:002009-06-26T05:35:43.015-04:00Even though the loss of your father is so painful ...Even though the loss of your father is so painful to you, I envy you. I came from a stoic family that showed little emotion and I never felt close to my parents or sister. We were very different and they seemed like aliens to me ---I guess I seemed like an alien to them, too. I have fond memories, but also some painful ones, but no deep emotional attachment. So, although your loss is painful, the joy your father brought you will outlast the pain, I'm sure.CJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11105598015852813723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5422526707436212403.post-40000297434407813632009-06-26T01:27:16.903-04:002009-06-26T01:27:16.903-04:00You'll never completely get rid of the pain . ...You'll never completely get rid of the pain . . . he was too important. But after a while, I'm sure the good memories (like the ones you related here) will help balance out the emotions.<br /><br />But birthdays will always be rough. Hang in there.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794712479594188124noreply@blogger.com