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Thursday, December 26, 2013

Oh Dear...

A couple of years ago, when I was really active in Blogland, most of my posts would generate a fair number of comments... from 10 to 50, depending on the topic... and that meant that many more people were actually reading, as only a small percentage comments. Now, this was the result, not of great writing, but of me being an extremely active participant in this fabulous little world. I read a lot of blogs... I commented on a lot of blogs... and people commented here, at The Ramblings.

Good blogging is, most certainly, a reciprocal activity.

But since I've started back up, I haven't had the time I used to have to hop around and read. I wish I did, as there are some amazing writers out there, not to mention people for whom I feel genuine affection, even if I've never met them in person.

So I've had to get used to writing for a smaller audience than before. And that's actually been fine. I'm trying to get back into the habit of writing every day... to find things to write about, even when I'm not inspired... to not worry about whether or not what I'm putting down is good enough for anyone else to see...

I'm writing for me this time around.

I do mention each post on my Facebook page and a number of my friends (many of whom are bloggy friends who became FB friends) read from there. I like that. It's nice.

So I still keep an eye on my feed. Feedjit isn't as effective as it was, as it doesn't capture cities/countries if the reader comes from a device other than a computer (so I can't always tell where people are coming from), but it does record all direct hits to a post, regardless of the device used to access it.

That's kind of cool.

Most of my posts, in the first week or so, get anywhere from 50 to 100 hits. That's not including the people who come to the main page of the blog, without clicking onto a specific post. And I'm really happy with that. That's a lot of people. Some posts lately have gotten has many 350, 400, and nearly 500 hits. That? Is very cool. Very cool.

But one in particular? Has hit the ball out of the park. Way out of the park...

About three weeks ago, I did a post called That Boy-Girl Thing. It was about how my teenaged daughter views her first "real" boyfriend relationship.

Sweet, right?

That post has gotten... are you ready for it?

1800 hits

In just over three weeks.

I could not figure out for the life of me why.

Then I noticed that a few people came to it from Google... by searching for...

Girls

And I realized...

That somewhere in the neighborhood of 1500 people came to my blog, looking for...

Porn.

Oh dear.

And then I laughed and laughed, thinking how disappointed they must have been.

7 comments:

liz waterston charlton said...

I have to tell you that I love your writing...sometimes I swear you have jumped into my head and lassoed my thoughts and wrestled them into words. Well done! I love reading what you have written, sharing your thoughts, laughing with you, sighing with you and wistful-ing (a totally made up word) with you...

Diane said...

Liz, thank you so much!! I appreciate your comment more than you can imagine!!

Cheri @ Blog This Mom!® said...

Well, you've seen the foot fetish fellas I inadvertently CONTINUE to attract by having posted about my toe problems a million years ago.

Move along, fellas, move along. Nothing here for you. :-)

Twyla Butler said...

I read this from Korea! I'll try to read more of your blogs, they're always so much fun and it's just like sitting down and having a coffee with you. Miss you!

Amy McMean said...

I came for the porn.......but stayed for the thought provoking writing.

J Cosmo Newbery said...

Ah, search engines find funny stuff sometimes. My poem of the Nude and the Elephant is by far the most visited.

dianne said...

I love your writing dear Diane but I don't always have the time to stop and comment.
I don't visit my own blog as often as I once did.
It is quite extraordinary what some people search for on the Internet.
I hope you and Ryan had a good Christmas, I am exhausted and pleased that it is over.
xoxoxo ♡